These are dilemmas that are someone else’s. Your take will help them see it more clearly and make a decision.
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They have a decision they cannot make alone.
They are not looking for advice. They want to know how people in their situation would lean — and that is something only other people can give them.
That is what this is. Five dilemmas that are not yours. Your honest instinct on each one. About two minutes.
That’s a real thing you’ve done. Someone new is stuck right now — ready when you are.
Have you ever personally faced something like this?
We keep these two answers apart. Lived experience is never mixed with instinct.
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That was how everyone answered. Tell us a little about your life and we’ll show you how people in your situation chose.
Come back tomorrow — there’ll be more.
have had your take on something they were weighing.
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Some things you will have more to say about than others. Pick any that fit — we will lean that way, without shutting the rest out.